Chapter 830 A Happy Childhood
Chapter 830 A Happy Childhood
"Uncle Ji, Miao Miao is already 4 years old.
Children of this age, especially girls, are very sensitive and fragile emotionally.
How could you tell Xinyue while she was asleep that Shi Yang didn't like her anymore and just kept hanging around your aunt all day?
You said forget it, but why don’t you check if the child is asleep?
Besides, what does it mean to revolve around me? What does it mean that dad doesn't like her anymore?
Do you know how destructive this sentence is to a young and ignorant child?
Today when I told her that I would live with my aunt and father in the future, she actually asked me if Shi Yang would agree.
Uncle Ji, you've been through this before, how could you do this? Miao Miao is only 4 years old, what does she know?
Okay, even if you didn’t mean to do this, I don’t blame you. Let’s move on to the next thing.
Uncle Ji, I have warned you repeatedly that if you or Xinyue are too busy.
Please let Shi Yang and I know, and we will take the initiative to go over and take the responsibility of taking care of Miao Miao.
She is Shi Yang's daughter. The reason why Shi Yang insisted on keeping Miao Miao by his side even though he hated Sang Si Ning so much was because of this.
It was precisely because he wanted to fulfill his original fatherly responsibilities to Miao Miao. As an aunt, Shi Yang’s child is my child.
This is a rule that our grandfather set for us when we were young.
He hopes that we will be inseparable and that we can shoulder each other’s responsibilities and support each other.
Miao Miao was at school, attending other children's birthday party, and his mother led the public in ridiculing him, saying that Miao Miao was a child without a mother's discipline.
No matter how harsh those words are, I don't blame you for this, and it's not your fault.
But how could you let the drunk Xinyue pick her up when Miaomiao was crying so sadly?
How do you ask the teacher to communicate with her in a timely manner? I've already told you that when Miao Miao is home, we should all try not to get drunk.
You can drink, but don’t drink too much. It’s really not good to act crazy when drunk in front of children.
Xinyue went there drunk. What do you think the teacher will think of us? Are we irresponsible parents, or is Ji Xinyue a drunkard?
That’s right, the next day, she brought her child to apologize to Xinyue and Miaomiao.
But that was all on the surface. She was secretly instigating her son to form cliques and bring other classmates to isolate Miao Miao.
Today, if I hadn't gone to pick up Miao Miao from school, Zhao Wei would have seen me. How long were you going to keep this a secret?
Okay, I won’t say any more about these.
Uncle Ji, I know you feel sorry for Shi Yang and me. You think we are too busy with work and you don’t want us to worry about Miao Miao.
If something happens to the child at school, as long as you can solve it, Shi Yang and I will never have to worry.
But Uncle Ji, this is not a small matter. The child has been bullied like that. You have to tell Shi Yang.
He is Miao Miao's father, and he has the right to know as a legal guardian.
To be honest, what I least want Miao Miao to experience is school violence or cold violence among classmates.
That's why I spent day and night checking the detailed list before she started school. I'm not kidding.
If you are not careful, Miao Miao will have irreversible psychological problems. I am a patient with mental illness, and you have seen how painful it is for me when I am ill.
I don't want Miao Miao to become like this, Uncle Ji. I'm not blaming you when I say this.
I just want to say, do you think we can try a different approach in the future to give Miao Miao a more complete home?
The child is still young, and as adults, we don’t have to agree with her in everything, but at least we have to let her know that we love her.
This family cannot live without her.
Do you know how sad I was when Miao Miao asked me, 'Aunt Xinyue will be her future mother'?
What disappointed me was not whether you, Aunt An, and Xinyue took good care of her, but that you passed on your own negative energy to the child.
This is not the situation I want to see.
Girls should not be spoiled from a young age, otherwise they will develop a restless and irritable personality when they grow up.
But one thing at a time, we should also pay a little attention to the scale of our speech in front of our children.
She doesn't listen to everything, do you think?"
Shi Rong's long and emotional speech made Ji Shengkai feel ashamed and guilty.
"Xiao Er, you're right. These things were the fault of Uncle Ji and Xinyue.
If you hadn't told me today, I wouldn't have known that a few unintentional mistakes could cause such great harm to Miao Miao.
Alas... I am ashamed to say that Li Ranran led the public in ridiculing Miao Miao for not having a mother. Aunt An and I knew about it.
But Xinyue had a good relationship with Li Ranran, and her attitude was very sincere when she apologized.
I saw it with my own eyes, and I thought maybe she was really able to correct her mistakes, so I didn't inform you and Yang'er and let her go privately.
This matter is Uncle Ji's fault.
"Xiao Er, don't be angry. Aunt An and I will be more careful in the future, okay?"
Shi Rong shook his head generously.
"Uncle Ji, I told you, I don't mean to blame you, Aunt An, or Xinyue.
You have tried very hard to take good care of Miao Miao.
You sacrificed your daily drink time with Uncle Xia and Uncle Shen, and insisted on taking Miao Miao out for a walk to exercise.
Aunt An rarely appears in public for social events. She stays at home every day and prepares Miao Miao's favorite nutritious meals.
Not to mention Xinyue. The first thing she does after get off work every day is to pick up Miaomiao from get out of class, send her home, and accompany her to sleep and rest.
I know all about getting up in the morning, giving her a bath, combing her hair, and dressing her.
Everyone is very busy at work, not just Shi Yang and I. With all the back and forth, there are always times when we get distracted and exhausted.
Your kindness to Miao Miao even makes Shi Yang and I feel ashamed, because we only know how to enjoy life and ignore our care and love for Miao Miao.
In the future, I will make time to spend more time with Miao Miao.
Let's all work together to give our children a happy childhood, okay?"
"it is good!"
Ji Shengkai nodded heavily.
"Uncle Ji is so happy that you can say this, Rong'er!
No matter how nice we are to Miao Miao, it is what we should do.
But then again, we are not the child's biological parents after all, and we cannot replace the importance you and Yang'er hold in her heart.
So Uncle Ji also thought about finding a suitable time to discuss with you: from now on, let her live with me and Aunt An every Monday, Wednesday and Friday.
We are used to taking care of the child, and we feel uncomfortable when we suddenly can't see her.
On Tuesdays and Thursdays, the Shen family and the Xia family each have one day.
Didn’t you also say that you want her to understand that everyone in the family loves her?
Uncle Ji thinks that the best approach is to treat everyone equally.
Wait until the weekend, when you, Yang'er, and stepmother are not particularly busy, and let the child return to you."
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